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more tired at that point: me or her. 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Monkey Speaks! </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://daratmathis.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/img_1848.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1848</image:title><image:caption>Java Monkey</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://daratmathis.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/img_1847.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1847</image:title><image:caption>This is sooo pretty, but soo unmanly. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://daratmathis.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/img_1843.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1843</image:title><image:caption>I loved the name of this place.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://daratmathis.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/img_1842.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1842</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://daratmathis.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/img_1841.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1841</image:title><image:caption>Marta is 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